for kadi: blend curd, water and besan. add salt to taste and bring to boil, prepare tadka of finely lenght wise chopped onions, jeera, ajwain, turmeric powder, red chilli powder and garam masala. mix with kadi..
for pakoras, make thin batter of besan, water, salt, jeera, red chili powder and add long chopped onions. deep fry in oil, use spoon to pour batter into oil
the last pre-wedding preparation in Delhi's kitcken :(